Can LOVE be shared equally for all?

Love is one of the important thing that one cannot live without. Children misbehave due to lacking of love. Partners hurt due to abuse of love. Family members suffer because of losing someone they love. Love hurts but love heals too. So, how do we define love?

It all begins from Family Love when it shares among a family members since a baby is born. Then, it extends to Friends Love when it grows and starts to mix with others whom are not its family members. Later, it grows to Couple Love when it meets someone it loves and if it continues, it goes back to Family Love as a new born has arrived. And the patterns continues..

Does Love only restrict to this pattern? 

Does Love only happens among family members, friends and couples? 

Does Love have to focus only to these groups? 

Do you know what kind of Love hurt?

Do you know why does these Love hurt?  

The kind of Love hurts most is the Love with the most attachment which is usually related to Family, Couple & Friends Love. These Love hurts because of too much attachment, focus and expectation. 

You suffer when you attach too much especially when one of these Love leaves you. 

You suffer when you focus too much by putting too much time, effort and energy just by hoping these Love will be with you forever but nothing is permanence. 

You suffer when you expect too much or high on these Love which is so important to you but when things gone wrong, you couldn't accept it and feel disappointed.

The Truth is Relationship just like any other things in this world is impermanence. In a Family Love, Couple Love or Friend Love, someone might leave due to the Natural Suffering of a human being; Born, Old, Sick, Death. Separating is part of a relationship. Someone might not be perfect to cherish and shower others with perfect love. Expectation and promises might not be able to fulfilled. And many more..

So, since Love is impermanence but it is something very important to have, why don't we share it. Share it with others which are not our family, friends, couple or relatives. Share it with strangers. Share it with those who need it. Share it with animals. Share it with sentient beings. Share it with all...

Besides, that's the purpose of life, right? To help others. Helping others doesn't focus only on cash or monetary or material but most people are hungered for love and attention. And that's the most valuable and precious thing that all sentient beings ever wanted, agree? And it is for free.

If you love too much, you will focus too much.

If you focus too much, you will expect too much.

If you expect too much, you will attach too much.

If you attach too much, you will hurt too much.

So, love should be shared equally for all without expecting anything in return unconditionally. 

Remember, to love is to be loved. To be loved is to love. Everything begins from you. The more love you give, the more love you receive. Even better, if you don't expect at all. True happiness comes when you least expect it. So, go ahead and love equally for all. 

May all be well and be loved.